I generally play with my regular subs and kinky friends that I've known and played with for years. It just makes a lot more sense since I know them, I know they're reliable and not flakey, and I know they're going to show up when we plan something and not give me just a day or two notice...and that all allows me to plan much hotter sessions and sometimes even build something new for the playroom in time for their visit.
That being said, I sometimes make an exception with someone new, providing the guy is willing to get to know each other better first...but that doesn't mean just chatting for 5 minutes online, or making an exception for a total stranger who is "in town for the night and wanting to play". That includes online chat, talking over the phone before even thinking about planning to meet, and usually hanging out/meeting for lunch or dinner sometime with no plans to play that day. Then if we both still mutually want to play, we can take it from there.
A few ways to ensure we will NOT play anytime soon (or ever):
If any of the above bullet points describes you, we're probably not a good match.
Some guidelines so you know what to expect, and what NOT to expect when playing with me:
This website contains my original work, almost all of which was done in my playroom...so that should give you a pretty good idea of the realm of possibility of things that I do. I absolutely respect limits, so just because you see it on this site doesn't mean I have to do it with you.
Things I generally will not do right away with someone new:
And to respond to a question (sort of) that I get very often...
If I visited to play, what would our first session be like?
Unfortunately, it's impossible for me to answer this question, for many reasons. When this question is asked, it's often before even talking over the phone...which is SOOO much better than impersonal online chat. Without knowing much about you, I have no clue what you're really into, what your true limits are, your experience so far (if any), what kind of shape you're in and what your endurance level is like (safety first!), whether you have anxiety issues and/or are likely to have panic attacks...especially when doing something that's new to you, etc. For all of these reasons and more, I can't put a "play book" together for you of what our first session will be like. Sure, you can throw things out there to sort of make "requests"...doesn't mean I'll do them (I've had some pretty extreme requests before, some even in the "unsafe" category), but it might help me to learn what makes you tick.
Also, getting this question is often purely intended for cyber jo chat purposes. Don't be THAT guy! ;-) I think you'll find that after getting to know you a bit better, I have no problem making sure you're comforable with my "playroom ways". It's just a bit awkward when it's the very first question in a chat box, haha.
Very general guidelines of guys I would be open to playing with:
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YOUR page is sooooo EXCITING!! I love that Stocks contraption. (not sure the name) I have seen other similar contraptions all over the internet and I must say it has always been one of those things that I fantasize about. I like being bound hands feet, and cock n balls. I have tried making similar things. I have a 2 x 4 with a hole cut in the center. and I can put my stuff through it so I cannot pull it out without my hands. My cock gets instantly hard and I usually shoot just like that. NO HANDS! That is how excited it makes me. I have also put cock rings on after getting in it. and my chastity on the otherside as well (cock through board then chastity. I SHOT soooooo BIG after that in cage. Sorry if this is the wrong place and even if it is not something you even want me to tell you. I just get so horny from your material here. Have a great day!! Charles