As always, make sure bdsm/kink play is safe, sane, and consensual. Never leave your sub alone during bdsm play. Prepare everything needed before restraining your sub so there’s no need to step away until after you’ve released him. When using rope or any tightly fitting cuffs, always periodically feel your sub’s hands/feet/balls (whatever is tied) to ensure they aren’t cold. Cold is a sign of circulation loss which needs to be addressed immediately by removing the restraints in that area before your sub gets hurt. Although today’s tutorial post may not seem like it involves predicaments that need to be watched every second, it’s still important to have a fairly good idea of what your sub can handle before doing them. Everyone is different and has different interests as well as thresholds of what they can handle.

Homemade chastity device (designed for use during play, not for long term use):

A lot of kinky guys want to try a chastity device, whether it’s to be locked in one, to lock someone else in one, or maybe a little of both. But chastity devices can be pretty expensive, ranging from around $30 for knock-offs (that typically split, rust, or have other negative effects before long), to upwards of $500 or more. For the purpose of detering your sub from getting hard, try this idea instead. Note: This is not a locking chastity device. Then again, chastity devices are meant to deter a boy from getting hard, and this device should do just that.

1. Cut 3 strips of velcro from the rough side, about 7 inches in length each.
2. Cut 3 additional strips of velco from the softer side, about 2.5 inches in length each.
3. Keeping the backing on, line up the 3 longer strips next to each other, overlapping the backing where possible to minimize gaps between the velcro strips.
4. With the rough side facing up, temporarily use one of the 2.5 inch softer strips on one end to hold the longer strips together while you continue putting things together.

5. Turn the strips over, peel back about ¾ inch of the backing on the end of each strip, and cut that much of each backing off.

6. Take one of your shorter 2.5 inch soft strips, peel the entire backing off, and stick it down across the end (the part you peeled back) of all 3 rough strips.

7. Peel back a bit more of the backing, and do the same with a second 2.5 inch soft strip, then the same with a third.

8. With the rough side facing down, take some scotch tape and use it to tape the opposite end of the strips together (the end without the shorter strips stuck to it), enough to hold the 3 strips together.

9. Now take your homemade chastity device and lay your sub’s dick over the middle of it with the rough velcro side facing up. Wrap the end with the soft velcro up over the top of his dick.

10. Then wrap the other end of the strips up over the top of his dick, on top of the soft velcro. This holds the device together. Be sure to do this when his dick is soft, and wrap it fairly tightly since the point is to deter him from getting hard. Now when your sub’s dick grows, he’ll feel hundreds of little prickly spikes pressing into his dick, harder and harder the bigger his dick grows. But will it make his dick go down? Or will it just grow more?

Subs: What do you think would happen to your dick when you feel the prickly little spikes from this device? Will it serve its purpose and make your dick go softer, or just make you harder? Share this post with your thoughts.

Once you’ve got his dick wrapped like this, a vibrating wand might be a nice touch, if his dick isn’t already growing rapidly.

Or try wrapping the velcro chastity device closer to the end of his dick, to ensure he feels the little spikes on the head.

Enhance an existing chastity cage:

1. Take an existing chastity device and set it down in a way that allow you to get a few fingers in the cage part of the device.
2. Cut a few squares or strips of self-stick velcro (the rough side, and clear velcro strips will look much better for this one) and stick them inside the cage, wherever you think they will be most effective. You should be able to cut just a corner or two of the backing so they stick enough without making them impossible to remove later.
3. Lock your sub’s dick in the chastity device and let him feel the “extra motivation” to not get hard. ;)

Cruel nipple clamps:

Most subs find nipple clamps to be pretty cruel, but there are some subs out there who act as if nothing is even on their nipples. For those subs, it’s time to step it up a notch.

1. Cut a strip of self-stick velcro (the rough side), about 1 inch long.
2. Cut the strip of velcro down the middle so you have two thinner strips.
3. Get a few clothespins. While holding a clothespin open, peel the backing off of a velcro strip and stick it on the inside of the end that is held open.
4. Repeat from the other side (or for a milder version, you can do this just on one side).

If you don’t have clothespins or just want to try something different, you can also do this using a small bag clip (like a chip clip) or similar item.

Make every step count:

Has your sub been lazy? Want to show him how easy he has it by making things a bit rougher on him?

1. You can either peel the backing off of the rough side of a few strips of self-stick velcro, then stick them in an old pair of your sub’s sneakers, or:
2. Follow steps 1-8 in the homemade chasity device instructions above for a cleaner, non-permanent approach. Then lay the combined strips inside your sub’s sneakers.
3. Put your sub’s sneakers on his bare feet and make sure they’re tied good so they won’t slip off.
4. Send your sub for a walk, a run, or maybe put a leash on him and lead him around the house.

Subs: Do you think this would motivate you to not get lazy again in the future?

Homemade cbt clamp:

1. See this post for how to put this one together.
2. Have fun with your very adjustable cbt clamp.

Next week: Part 2, using another simple, very discrete item, which many of you may already have in your homes. You may even be thinking about throwing it away, not realizing all of the kinky uses you can get out of it.